Abigail?Wise and Determined

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INTRODUCTION

Abigail definitely belongs in this study of great women of the Bible. Of the seven women being reviewed, she is the one most people are less likely to know. Scripture presents her as a beautiful, intelligent woman whose lot in life is one of being married to a rich fool. Abigail reveals how wisdom and determined action need to partner in order to save good people from disaster. Being wise in itself may not be sufficient in some situations. Without taking immediate action, it is possible to simply stand by and watch destruction that could be avoided.

Abigail's example points to the importance of the words chosen when speaking in tense situations. Harsh, loud words may become the catalyst to an unnecessary explosion. They may drive individuals to actions which will be regretted later. In contrast we see how calm, carefully calculated words can lead to a peaceful parting or solution. This lesson's golden text deserves careful attention: "A soft answer turns away wrath: but grievous words stir up anger" (Proverbs 15:1).

Today's lesson revolves around the attitudes and actions of three persons. One doesn't hesitate to spout inflammatory words without any regard for the potential consequences. Another of the characters hears the words and, in haste, decides to retaliate in a manner with far-reaching implications. Fortunately, standing between them is a woman who immediately grasps the entire setting. Then she races to bring a peaceful end which, in the long run, will bring special benefit to her.

This lesson also provides us with another area for consideration. What should be our attitude when crisis thrusts itself upon us? It's true we have differing personalities and emotional levels. However, every one of us should strive to be "calm, cool, and collected." This can be accomplished as we keep a tight rein on ourselves and allow the Holy Spirit to guide us. "Think twice before speaking once" is wise advice.

I. DETERMINED ACTION (1 Samuel 25:2-6, 9-19)

A. David's Request (vv. 2-6, 9)

(1 Samuel 25:4-6, 9 is not included in the printed text.)

2. And there was a man in Maon, whose possessions were in Carmel; and the man was very great, and he had three thousand sheep, and a thousand goats: and he was shearing his sheep in Carmel.

3. Now the name of the man was Nabal; and the name of his wife Abigail: and she was a woman of good understanding, and of a beautiful countenance: but the man was churlish and evil in his doings; and he was of the house of Caleb.

The story of Abigail is set in the years when David and his men are fugitives from King Saul. Repeatedly Saul's forces pursue David, but he successfully eludes them in spite of the spies located in various parts of the country. On one occasion David is in the wilderness of Paran, which was located west of the southern end of the Dead Sea. This vast area proves to be a good area for raising sheep and goats. A wealthy man named Nabal uses it for his very large flocks.